How To Quickly Tell If You Are A Total Self-Help Junkie
"How can I tell if I am a self-help junkie?"
"I don't think I am a self-help junkie, but my family thinks otherwise."
"I have a library of self-help books, but I don't think they have helped me."
"What can I do if I am a self-help junkie?"
Self-help can be a wonderful thing. What could be better than trying to better yourself and improving your life?
So what’s the difference between that and a junkie?
A junkie is someone that does something because it feels good, but that action doesn’t provide any benefit.
Self-help junkies fool themselves into thinking that they’re helping themselves, but in reality, they’re just absorbing new information.
They never actually put any of it into practice!
See if these 8 clues peg you as a self-help junkie:
You have a library of self-help materials that would amaze your friends.
Many people enjoy reading self-help books, blogs and attending seminars, but have you applied what you've learned?
How big is your self-help library?
You're constantly improving the little things but avoiding the larger issues.
Are you obsessed with improving some smaller facet of your life, but avoiding working on the areas that could really make a difference? For example, are you obsessed with increasing your reading speed, yet you consistently find that you can't pay your bills on time?
What parts of your life do you fix?
Any self-help topic will do - even topics that aren't relevant to your life.
Do you sleep great, but read about how to sleep even better? Would you read an article about how to have more self-confidence if you were already brimming with that quality?
What do you read? Is it overkill?
Are you always certain that you just need one more book or program to put you over the top?
Many self-help junkies are convinced that they're just inches from incredible success, and they only lack that final piece of the puzzle.
Do you believe success is always just out of reach?
Self-help is your pastime.
Using leisure time to digest self-help materials is certainly acceptable, but do you use it just as a filler activity? Do you really intend to implement the information in a useful way?
What do you do for fun?
You use self-help as a tool of avoidance.
Are you using self-help materials as a way of fooling yourself into thinking that you're making progress? Do you use your time on self-help information to avoid dealing with the challenges in your life?
How much progress are you really making?
You like to talk about self-help without acting on it.
Do you enjoy discussing self-help with friends? Perhaps you like to comment on self-help forums. Maybe you even interact with some self-help authors from time to time. This is the same issue as reading but not applying. Set a specific, achievable goal.
Are you all talk, no action?
You use self-help as a distraction or a way of making yourself feel better, temporarily.
Some people get a high from reading self-help information. It can be uplifting to read about the success of others or to imagine your own success.
Are the wonderful feelings short-lived?
Don’t let your information gathering fool you into thinking that you’re doing something to improve your life.
The gathering of information is just the first step to self-help. You must apply the information to grow and improve your life.
A great tip is to ask yourself at the end of each day, “If I lived this same day over and over, where will I be in 5 years?”
This is the best way to know if you truly had a productive day.